Embrace Tantrums, Outbursts, Scenes, etc. When you tell a child “no” they will often have a tantrum. The tantrum is an important step in their development in that it’s them learning that they can’t always get what they want. The sooner they learn this the better. The problem is that many parents are afraid of the scene so hesitate to become a leader for fear of the tantrum. Leaders walk right into the storm with no fear. You need to go through that storm to get to the rainbow. Think of it as sho