Jennifer Abah on Instagram: "I do not like the compliment “big, bold, and beautiful” and here’s my reason in summary — Why can’t people just say “you’re beautiful”? Adding qualifiers to say things like “dark-skinned/black and beautiful”, “you’re beautiful for a …”, “big, bold and beautiful”, makes it sound like the person’s beauty is surprising and not the norm for that group of people — like the person is beautiful in spite of those things. That kind of language often reflects an unconscious bi